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Post by paisley2 on Apr 12, 2022 13:20:57 GMT
I hate government regulatory control of relationships.
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Post by tarbe on Apr 12, 2022 22:10:13 GMT
Yeah, once the punches started there was no hope. I don't think that God appreciates when someone hits His daughter either. There is little worse than to be in a position where a person who is trusted to protect you (parent, spouse, teacher, cop, preacher) ends up violating that trust and ends up abusing you. It hurts every time I hear about it. I am glad you were able to get away from that and I hope you find peace and comfort going forward.
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Post by themotherhen on Apr 13, 2022 5:13:45 GMT
wildhorseluvr , very good advice! If I never see the man again I will be content. Thanks for the prayers and advice, everyone. It is very helpful.
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Post by Txsteader on Apr 13, 2022 21:07:22 GMT
No advice to give you themotherhen. I'm sad to hear of it but I'm glad you're safe. May God bless you, keep you and give you peace. Hugs.
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Post by UseLess on Apr 13, 2022 22:30:57 GMT
Don't wait to "save up for a divorce". Find someplace to go. Maybe you can eventually keep whatever property you own together, but don't try to stay there if he'd have easy access. When the behavior deteriorates that much, as far as I'm concerned, the perpetrator can never be trusted. Been there, came out on the other side better, healthier, safer. Sending you thoughts of strength and calm.
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Post by themotherhen on Apr 13, 2022 23:13:02 GMT
UseLess, I am no longer residing with him, in fact am about 1300 miles away now 🙂. We are safe and well!
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Post by themotherhen on Apr 13, 2022 23:13:19 GMT
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Post by UseLess on Apr 14, 2022 22:39:33 GMT
UseLess , I am no longer residing with him, in fact am about 1300 miles away now 🙂. We are safe and well! OK, then. I'm an hour and change, but the ex only came here twice. (2013/14). It will be three years this spring that I've seen him at all. My sister has at the big flea market. He didn't see/recognize her. Weird since we look very much alike, and she's been pretty close up a couple times. I just lost interest in going. Coincidental, no longer because he might show up.
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Post by themotherhen on Apr 14, 2022 23:48:03 GMT
UseLess, I am glad that you are also safe now!
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